DECENCY AND YOUR VIRGINITY


(Part 1)
As an individual, male or female especially as a young person who still have so much to live for, you owe it yourself to make sure you have the correct and true notion of Sex in your mind, otherwise, you may use your own hands to put a hook on your throat sooner or later. Some persons don't tell you the complete truth because they figured it is better to sell what most people are willing to buy which is basically a little truth covered with so much lies.
Many adverts on TV’s today advise young people to use a Condom, and go ahead to have casual Sex that it will protect them. Such advise is a classic example of the little bit of truth we earlier talked about. Condom is just like an umbrella and at best a rain coat as it is fondly called in many societies. You don’t need to be a genius to know that an umbrella or a raincoat cannot really protect you from a serious rain let alone a storm. An umbrella can only prevent a couple of drops of rain from touching you but sooner or later you will get wet; and if it is a heavy rain or storm, your umbrella or rain coat will simply be useless.
Ofcourse an umbrella is good but should never be overrated or be called what it is not. An umbrella is not a bullet proof vest neither is it capable of shielding you from storms or a proper rain. Trust me nobody with his complete senses will enter a storm because he has an umbrella in his hand. So, Condoms can never completely protect you.
(Protection)
The word ‘protect’ is an English word that means the following, ‘To Shield from danger, injury, change, capture and loss: To completely defend and strengthen’. If you observed the definition of the word ‘protect’ carefully, you will see that it is an exclusive word’, that doesn’t have room for words like partially, almost, limited etc. In other words, when you say something can ‘protect’ that means you are saying that thing can ‘completely’ shield from every form of danger, injury, change, capture and loss as it relates to the subject matter. Perhaps, the unwritten caption on the pack of condoms reads the following: ‘Users are their own risk’. With regards the world’s statistics today, so many millions still get infected every year and now almost half of the population get infected; despite all the free distribution of CONDOMS in schools and free medical test venue(s).
Believe or not Condoms cannot really protect you and I from STD’s and STI’s including HIV. It was never really meant to ‘protect’ but to ‘reduce risk’ and that is no more a top secret. Truth is one’s virginity as a young person is his/her only best and real protection against STD’s and STI’s, and other sexual troubles. However, if your virginity is lost already, you can still protect yourself by staying completely faithful to your spouse or simply flee from illicit sex if you are not old enough to have a spouse. Except you are already infected, it is never too late to avoid the diseases or truly protect yourself from other ones. All you have to do is discipline yourself and stop engaging in indiscriminate sexual intercourse with or without Condoms.

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